advice from Marcel Rufo

The point of view of Marcel Rufo, child psychiatrist

This is a friendship that goes back to childhood, and which is therefore very important both for your son, Nathalie, and for Noé. Their relationship resembles that which can be observed between twins. She allowed Noah to come to terms with being an only child. Antoine undoubtedly realizes this and your eldest son himself must appreciate also playing the role of big brother to Noé.

The key to the evolution of this relationship is this girl who does not leave them indifferent who holds it. It’s a safe bet that the one of the two boys who hasn’t won her heart will feel the need to leave their restricted circle of friends. This young friend has every chance of precipitating the independence of one in relation to the other, which the internship in Asia did not succeed in producing!

But I think that Antoine and Noé will still remain very deeply linked. Especially since there does not seem to be any conflict between them, even if they may find themselves in rivalry. In this context, any intrusion on your part into their affairs could be perceived as hostile by these two boys united by a long-established friendly relationship. Don’t be worried, Nathalie!