My daughter cut the bridges after a donation-party

Marcel Rofo’s point of view, child psychiatrist

You suggest that your husband and you, Colette, did not have excellent communication with your younger daughter. Perhaps it clear has felt disadvantaged during this donation-sharing, unless it signed for it the end of your story in common? As if, against a background of speech deficit, this notarial act had in his eyes formalized your rupture.

If this bad communication seems to you to have weighed, I advise you to write to Claire to share your wish to open the discussion about your past relationships and on his feelings. In addition, ask your eldest daughter- if the two sisters get along well- how her younger has experienced this donation. Does she feel like he was injured?

Finally, keep the link with your granddaughter, continuing to send him a gift to the occasions that arise and write to him regularly. Take the precaution of taking a photocopy of your letters. You will be able to show them to Anna, later, if she doubted your affection. Does Claire feed grievances against you without telling you? Does it mistaken your intentions? These questions must be asked without delay. Courage !